transition

 There’s a certain irony to it, in my experience, since this means we are constantly bombarded with “how to get over” that ex, but aren’t really guided — by family, social circles and other institutions, or media — on how to deal with “getting over” a friendship.

Friend Breakups Can Hurt As Much As Romantic Breakups

In a culture focused on the importance and superiority of romantic attraction and relationships — a culture aromantics might call alloromantic-centric — platonic friendships (another form of relationship) are consistently undervalued.

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This is the closest thing to fate that I know.

Maybe Being Transgender Wasn't A Mistake

Two months on testosterone — while it may not have been fate, I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be.

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So marvelous.

Testosterone And Tea With Sam Dylan Finch: One Month

Don’t ask me to explain how hormones can make a person feel so free.

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You're gonna like this one.

Testosterone And Tea With Sam Dylan Finch: Week 5

Every little change is like a flower bursting open in my chest.

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Testosterone And Tea With Sam Dylan Finch: Week 4

My fixation with my face wasn’t about my own vanity – it was just another manifestation of dysphoria.

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It's sweater weather during week 2 of testosterone.

Testosterone And Tea With Sam Dylan Finch: Week 2

I spent many sleepless nights worrying that being transgender meant that I would live a troubled life.

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In Honor of Friends Finale's 10th Anniversay, Ditch your On-Again-Off-Again Relationship

About 60% of adults have engaged in a tumultuous romance like that of Ross and Rachel. We're here to give you some tough love.

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Lisftul Thinking: 12 Ways to Enjoy Friend-with-Benefits Bliss

Heed our tips for happy boot-knocking, no strings attached.

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