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12 Of The Sh*ttiest Things Men Have Said To Me
Recently I’d gotten into an argument with a male friend. It got me thinking about the shittiest things men have said to me… Read...
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I’m Scared I’m Only Attracted To Assholes
The worst thought of all — if I meet someone who actually is really nice, how will I stop my anxiety from telling me they will end up being assholes? Read...
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I’m An Attractive, Successful Woman And Men Don’t Want To Date Me
I often wonder if the fact I have a successful career is why I have so much trouble finding Mr Right. Strong women intimidate boys, and excite men. Read...
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My Bipolar Disorder In Five Dates
Once I learned how to discuss my bipolar disorder, I stopped defining myself by my illness and started talking about my emotions as well as my Read...
Long Reads
What Is It About My Dating Profile That Says Treat Me Like Crap?
I hear internet dating success stories all the time. My story never seems to quite go that way. I’ll just be sitting here waiting for my weirdo. Read...
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Put It In Writing: Using A Contract To Heal My Relationship
When I told my friends, family, and therapist we were back together, they were worried. That’s when we had the idea to write up a contract. Read...
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I’m Happy Being Single And It Scares The Sh*t Out Of Me
I still want to be in a relationship eventually, and have a family and all that, but right now I am happy being single, and that scares me. Read...
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Is It Because I'm Fat? How Internalized Shame Impacts Intimacy
I still went to the painful place of being fat-shamed and decided that was why he had refused to kiss me. The pain never fully went away. Read...
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