Love

Why I’ll Never, Ever Get Over My Girlfriend’s Murder

You can learn to live with the pain, you can move on as I have after over a decade of self-reflection and hard work, but you never, ever get over it.

You can learn to live with the pain, you can move on as I have after over a decade of self-reflection and hard work, but you never, ever get over it.

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Are You A Sapiophile? Here’s How To Know…

The sapiophile can still find love; it just probably won’t be on Tinder.

The sapiophile can still find love; it just probably won’t be on Tinder.

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10 Truths I've Learned In 35 Years

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I define myself by the truths I live by. Today, I’m turning 35. Here are 10 Truths I’ve learned that make me who I am. I offer them to you, with love.

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I’m A Rape Survivor; This Is How My Husband & I Handle Intimacy

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Assault does not disappear because the new identities of “spouse” or “mother” accumulate in your wake. This is how my husband and I handle intimacy.

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Stick It To The Homophobes: Why My Lesbian Wedding Will Be Unapologetically Over-The-Top

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I suddenly understood why I felt this intense pressure to make my lesbian wedding so wildly spectacular — to stick to the homophobes.

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Take The Cake: Yes, Fat Women Actually Date Amazing People

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I’ve dated people of all sizes, income levels, and personality types. I only get questions when I’m dating someone whose status is seen as “above” my own.

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Breaking The Stigma Of Dating And Loving With HIV​

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Life and Love with HIV hopes to shatter outdated stigmas and introduce stories of happiness, pleasure, and positivity. Loving with HIV.

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My Friends Turned Out To Be Better Matchmakers Than The Professional

No, not a relationship coach or therapist. I decided to go to a matchmaker.

My first impression of the matchmaker was that she was someone with whom I’d be friends. Yet, my real friends turned out to be better matchmakers.

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Take The Cake: 7 Ways Thin People Romantically Exploit Fat People

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Fat people often get so little attention that feels positive. When someone offers exploitative attention or exploits fat people it can feel really good.

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I'm Glad I Chose Myself Over My Boyfriend​

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I smiled and walked out the door, choosing myself over a guy, choosing my business over a person who wanted me to be someone I no longer was.

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