empowerment

When I realized I wanted to take on fat shaming and diet culture, my intuitive response was to start with me.

Take The Cake: Is Empowerment, Like, Victim Blaming's Cousin?

As I’ve begun to teach other people about how to break up with diet culture, I offer everything in my personal artillery. And I’m proud of that. I love that. However, I’m always quick to remind them that fatphobia isn’t their problem to fix because they — WE — didn’t create it. Our job is to heal ourselves and to live life on our own terms.

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Can’t we acknowledge Kardashian’s right to be proud of her own body, even if we don’t like the way she does it?

Why Trashing Kim Kardashian Is Crushing Your Daughter's Spirit

There's been a lot of drama around Kim Kardashian's nude selfie. She got a bit of smack down from some big stars such as Bette Midler and Pink who didn’t see Kardashian’s nudity as all that empowering for women. At first, I wasn't sure that I disagreed with them. I’d love to see women be both fully clothed and empowered. But my 18 year-old daughter left me with a thought I hadn't yet considered: Maybe the Kardashian beat-down is NOT the way to build our daughter’s spirit or confidence.

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There is only one, beautiful, sparkly diamond like you in this world. Just one. Image: DalaHawk.

The End Of Black History Month: You Do You, I'm Doing Me

Let me tell you something, ladies. There are a million people in this world ready to tear you down at any given moment, for reasons they know, and reasons they don’t know. They will all but sell the blood of their firstborn child to make sure you know that they think you ain’t shit.

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Why I'm Happy With My Size-16 Bikini Body

I said (on TV, to Rachael Ray, so there are a few million witnesses): If you want a bikini body, put a bikini on your body.

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Jordan Buttacavoli: Executive Assistant

Spotted at: Market Street, SF

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Credit: Wikipedia Commons

South Asia's Fatherhood Revolution—And What It Means For Girls

A handful of fathers in countries with long sexist histories are slowly but surely walking the walk of empowering their daughters.

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Grace Gelder walks down the aisle (Credit: Amy Grubb)

Raising A Glass To Grace Gelder: First Woman In Britain To Marry Herself

A London woman says "I do" . . . to herself. Empowered singledom reigns.

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Shailene Speaks: Newest "It" Girl Talks Lady Respect

Divergent star Shailene Woodley shares some strong words about woman-to-woman respect.

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