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Ask Erin: I Can't Handle The Sexual Dynamics Of My Relationship

Why can’t I be happy with someone who cares about me even if the sex isn’t what I’d like? Or is this the relationship dynamic?  Read...
Focusing on changing someone allows wounds to fester.

10 Reasons You Have To Stop Trying To Change Someone

Trying to change someone is deadly to an intimate relationship.

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My mom has been an invaluable mentor — not just to me, but to many of my friends.

A Mother's Wisdom: Why Everyone Needs A Mentor And A Friend

Back in my early twenties, I struggled financially. But more so in that much-mocked Millennial quest of “finding myself,” I made a number of questionable decisions.

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You don't have to be anything just because you were in the past.

21 Things My Adult Self Wishes My College Self Knew

At age 25, I'm hardly an adult. But boy am I grown up compared to who I was in college. If I could go back in time, I'd have quite a few things to tell my former self, and save a lot of stress, time, and energy.

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Oh no she didn't!

Ask Erin!: Should I Confront My Friend For Sending A Love Letter To My Husband?

Last week, my husband received a Facebook message from a good mutual friend of ours. We are also good friends with her husband. It was basically one long love poem!

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10 Ways To Cope With A Difficult Diagnosis

8. Educate, don’t fixate.

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5 Things I Had To Learn In Order To Love My Nice Guy

If you've had drama in past relationships, you may feel uncomfortable in a healthy relationship with a nice guy. Here's how to change that.

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Advice On Intimacy After Losing A Partner: Excerpt From Happily Even After

Answers for women looking to get through (and beyond) the grief of widowhood.

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