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Am I an emotional cheater? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Am I An Emotional Cheater? 

I feel like this is cheating — having feelings for him, so I feel bad. I have thought about ending things with my boyfriend. Am I an emotional Read...
Erin Khar   |   04.25.18   |   SHARE
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Do I tell my coworker that I saw his junk? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Do I Tell My Coworker That I Saw His Junk?

How in the world do I go about letting him know that he was exchanging dirty pics with someone who is not a stranger after all? I saw his junk! Read...
Erin Khar   |   04.18.18   |   SHARE
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Is sexting cheating? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Is Sexting Considered Cheating? 

Is sexting cheating? I've been with my boyfriend a little under a year. He refuses to acknowledge what he did as cheating. Read...
Erin Khar   |   04.11.18   |   SHARE
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Should I stop giving unsolicited advice? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Should I Stop Giving Unsolicited Advice? Please Advise.

I am the "advice columnist" of my friends' group. How much helping is too much helping? Should I stop giving unsolicited advice? Read...
Erin Khar   |   04.4.18   |   SHARE
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I need to know how to express anger after sexual abuse. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I Need Help Expressing Anger After Sexual Abuse

I am unable to physically show any signs of anger — I’m too scared, too well-trained not to. I need to know how to express anger after sexual abuse. Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.28.18   |   SHARE
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I feel like I need to explore my sexuality because I haven't felt sexually attracted to men for a while. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I'm Dating A Guy, But I Like A Girl. Help!

I’m dating a guy, but I like a girl. I know that this seems very odd and is an awkward situation, but do you have any advice for my dilemma? Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.21.18   |   SHARE
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The love you have for your husband is not enough in the face of abuse. And make no mistake, you are in an abusive relationship. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I Can’t Cope With My Emotionally Abusive Husband 

From a 25 point list, "These are the signs you're in an emotionally abusive relationship," he even agreed he was doing like 22 of them. Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.8.18   |   SHARE
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You are not overreacting. But, you may have to realign your expectations. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Am I Overreacting To The Way My Partner’s Family Treats Me? 

Her parents, more specifically her mother, seem to have these microaggressions towards our relationship and I don’t know how to handle it. Am I Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.7.18   |   SHARE
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