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Should I stop giving unsolicited advice? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Should I Stop Giving Unsolicited Advice? Please Advise.

I am the "advice columnist" of my friends' group. How much helping is too much helping? Should I stop giving unsolicited advice? Read...
Erin Khar   |   04.4.18   |   SHARE
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I need to know how to express anger after sexual abuse. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I Need Help Expressing Anger After Sexual Abuse

I am unable to physically show any signs of anger — I’m too scared, too well-trained not to. I need to know how to express anger after sexual abuse. Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.28.18   |   SHARE
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I feel like I need to explore my sexuality because I haven't felt sexually attracted to men for a while. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I'm Dating A Guy, But I Like A Girl. Help!

I’m dating a guy, but I like a girl. I know that this seems very odd and is an awkward situation, but do you have any advice for my dilemma? Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.21.18   |   SHARE
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The love you have for your husband is not enough in the face of abuse. And make no mistake, you are in an abusive relationship. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I Can’t Cope With My Emotionally Abusive Husband 

From a 25 point list, "These are the signs you're in an emotionally abusive relationship," he even agreed he was doing like 22 of them. Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.8.18   |   SHARE
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You are not overreacting. But, you may have to realign your expectations. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Am I Overreacting To The Way My Partner’s Family Treats Me? 

Her parents, more specifically her mother, seem to have these microaggressions towards our relationship and I don’t know how to handle it. Am I Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.7.18   |   SHARE
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My dilemma is that I don’t know whether or not I should let her know. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I’m The “Other Woman” And I Need Advice

I’m the “other woman.” A couple of years ago I met this guy at my office and we were off and on. I don’t know if I should let his girlfriend know. Read...
Erin Khar   |   02.28.18   |   SHARE
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How could he stand with survivors when he had sexually assaulted me, had made me feel so scared and sickened and not safe? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: How Do I Tell My Best Friend That He Sexually Assaulted Me?

I'm really conflicted and upset and confused at the moment and just wanted some advice. My best friend sexually assaulted me, and he doesn't realize Read...
Erin Khar   |   02.21.18   |   SHARE
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(Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: My Husband Left Yesterday — Is My Marriage Really Over?

My husband left yesterday after months of fighting because in October I found out he had an affair. Is my marriage really over? Read...
Erin Khar   |   02.14.18   |   SHARE
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