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My husband is an addict; should I leave?

Ask Erin: My Husband Is An Addict; Should I Leave? 

I’m married to a guy who struggles with addictions to cocaine and alcohol. I've been with him for over a decade. My husband is an addict; should I Read...
Erin Khar   |   11.17.17   |   SHARE
Ask Erin: Help! I have no libido.

Ask Erin: Help! I Have No Libido

Help! I am a 27-year-old woman. I'm in a great relationship with a man who loves me, but I never want to have sex. I have no libido. Read...
Erin Khar   |   11.10.17   |   SHARE
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I don't want to be a horrible friend but I want out.

Ask Erin: Am I A Horrible Friend?

I'm seriously considering exiting a friendship. My friend is in an emotionally abusive marriage. I don't want to be a horrible friend but I want out. Read...
Erin Khar   |   11.3.17   |   SHARE
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"I'm falling in love with him." (Image: Mariah Sharp @MightyMooseArt)

Ask Erin: Help! I'm In Love With My Best Friend

I’m falling in love with my best friend, and I definitely feel that he may feel similarly. Do I do to move forward? I don’t want to miss this window. Read...
Erin Khar   |   10.27.17   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: Is He Single Or Not?

There’s someone I like, but I'm not sure if he's single or not. I met this guy online, we've been texting, and I'm starting to like him enough to Read...
Erin Khar   |   10.20.17   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: I'm Asexual; How Do I Get Him To Back Off? 

It's no secret that I'm asexual. I've explained what this means several times, and I know this guy is well aware. How do I get him to back off? Read...
Erin Khar   |   10.13.17   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: Does My Boyfriend Want A Polyamorous Relationship? 

A polyamorous relationship requires the desire and consent of all parties involved. So let's talk about your bodyfriend wanting a polyamorous Read...
Erin Khar    |   10.6.17   |   SHARE
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Do I have a responsibility to tell him he's a rapist?

Ask Erin: Do I Tell My Rapist That He Raped Me?

Do I have a responsibility to tell my rapist that he raped me? Or am I giving him the benefit of the doubt again by assuming he doesn't already know? Read...
Erin Khar    |   09.29.17   |   SHARE
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