emotionally unavailable

How on earth could I have been married to a man for 15 years and not recognize that he had Asperger Syndrome? Looking back, there were clues.

Being emotionally available is not that easy for any of us. And for a man in a society where we give our such mixed messages, it’s no surprise that both the people asking men to be emotionally available and the men who are trying to achieve it, are confused.