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Ask Erin: My Partner's Father Hates Me

She’s made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to… Ask Erin is a weekly advice column, in Read...
Erin Khar   |   04.17.19   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: I Have Abandonment Issues 

Do people ever recover from abandonment issues? Life looks very long and very lonely from where I'm standing right now. Read...
Erin Khar   |   04.10.19   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: My Partner Won't Celebrate My Birthday

I like when a partner puts some thought and effort (and yes, a tiny bit of money, nothing to break the bank) into special occasions. Read...
Erin Khar   |   03.27.19   |   SHARE
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6 Ways We Sabotage Our Relationships With “Caretaking” Behavior

When we adopt the “caretaker” role, we minimize our partner’s contributions and exaggerate our own, which creates an unbalanced dynamic that prevents Read...
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Take The Cake: Stop Shaming Indirect Communication

I’ve been ashamed of my indirect communication style for a really long time. Recently I realized that I was done feeling shame for the way I navigate Read...
Virgie Tovar    |   11.8.18   |   SHARE
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I was actually keeping the promise I’d made to myself and sticking to all the self-help advice I’d read.

 I Finally Took Self-Help Advice And It Actually Worked!

I was actually keeping the promise I’d made to myself and sticking to all the self-help advice I’d read. THAT WAS A FIRST! Read...
Alexi Wasser    |   10.15.18   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: I'm Afraid I Am Frigid

I'm afraid that I am frigid. I spent a decade making excuses and convincing myself that things with the next guy would be better. Read...
Erin Khar   |   09.26.18   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: I'm Exhausted By My Daughter's Depression

I am at my limits of coping with my daughter’s depression. She is depressed and suffers from high anxiety. It is taking its toll. Read...
Erin Khar   |   09.19.18   |   SHARE
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