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Do I tell my coworker that I slept with her boyfriend?

Ask Erin: Do I Tell My Coworker That I Slept With Her Boyfriend?

It was a one night stand, I don’t have any feelings for him, and she’s not a really close friend. Do I tell my coworker that I slept with her Read...
Erin Khar   |   11.22.17   |   SHARE
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You are not entitled to my emotional labor!

You Are Not Entitled To My Emotional Labor

I am not here for your betterment. I am not here to be your dumping ground for all of your thoughts and fears. You are not entitled to my emotional Read...
Carrie Saum    |   11.22.17   |   SHARE
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My husband is an addict; should I leave?

Ask Erin: My Husband Is An Addict; Should I Leave? 

I’m married to a guy who struggles with addictions to cocaine and alcohol. I've been with him for over a decade. My husband is an addict; should I Read...
Erin Khar   |   11.17.17   |   SHARE
Ask Erin: Help! I have no libido.

Ask Erin: Help! I Have No Libido

Help! I am a 27-year-old woman. I'm in a great relationship with a man who loves me, but I never want to have sex. I have no libido. Read...
Erin Khar   |   11.10.17   |   SHARE
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I don't want to be a horrible friend but I want out.

Ask Erin: Am I A Horrible Friend?

I'm seriously considering exiting a friendship. My friend is in an emotionally abusive marriage. I don't want to be a horrible friend but I want out. Read...
Erin Khar   |   11.3.17   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: Is He Single Or Not?

There’s someone I like, but I'm not sure if he's single or not. I met this guy online, we've been texting, and I'm starting to like him enough to Read...
Erin Khar   |   10.20.17   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: I'm Asexual; How Do I Get Him To Back Off? 

It's no secret that I'm asexual. I've explained what this means several times, and I know this guy is well aware. How do I get him to back off? Read...
Erin Khar   |   10.13.17   |   SHARE
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People love giving me advice but I'm begging you, these are things I never want to hear again.

8 Things I Never Want To Hear, Ever Again

As a person who writes about relationships for a living, I might be one of the people least in need of all this well-meaning advice, which usually Read...
Elizabeth Laura Nelson of SHESAID    |   09.13.17   |   SHARE
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