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It is natural for memory to gloss over the painful events and emphasize the good ones. You may be viewing your ex through rose-colored glasses.

You Wanted The Divorce But You Still Miss Your Ex

It is natural for memory to gloss over the painful events and emphasize the good ones. You may be viewing your ex through rose-colored glasses. Read...
Wendi Schuller of DivorcedMoms    |   10.19.18   |   SHARE
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Even though we are no longer living together as a married couple, it’s not the end of our relationship — it just means carrying on in a new way.

My Ex-Husband And I Still Hang Out ​

Even though we are no longer living together as a married couple, it’s not the end of our relationship — it just means carrying on in a new way. Read...
Sarah Bregel    |   09.17.18   |   SHARE
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(Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I'm Jealous Of My Partner's Ex

He keeps saying that when the divorce is over she will be out of our lives but it’s not true. I'm jealous of my parent's ex. Read...
Erin Khar   |   09.5.18   |   SHARE
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I'm Not Doing Emotional Labor For Past Lovers Anymore

The amount of emotional labor I had put into these pseudo-friendships was immediately swept away with one single mention of my own personal discomfort Read...
Laura Delarato    |   10.18.17   |   SHARE
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Sometimes when we have to deliver shitty news like this, the recipient may misdirect their angry or hurt feelings on the wrong person, because that’s easier to do than confronting the person who betrayed them.

 Ask Erin: Should I Tell My Ex’s New Girlfriend He Was Trying To Get With Me?

She’s made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to… Ask Erin is a weekly advice column, in which Erin answers your burning questions about anything at Read...
Erin Khar    |   08.11.17   |   SHARE
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I think wanting a relationship that isn’t muddied in past lives is not too much to ask.

Why I Would Never Date Someone Who Stayed Friends With Their Ex

I’m a pretty confident lady, and yet, I would never date someone who stayed close friends with their ex. I just wouldn’t. Read...
Gigi Engle    |   07.18.17   |   SHARE
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To all those girls who think “you’ll never find another like him,” you’re right. You’ll find better.

How The Perception Of My First Love Changed After Dating

I took so long to get over my ex because I put him on a false pedestal in my head. I wasn’t actually happy when I was with him, but when I was Read...
Jessica Wendroff    |   06.12.17   |   SHARE
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Are we just keeping an old flame in the platonic slot to act as a security blanket to come back to?

Can You Ever Be Friends With An Ex?

Once you’ve had an intimate relationship with someone, can you rewind and start again? Read...
Peta Serras of SHESAID    |   05.26.17   |   SHARE
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