Erin  Khar

Managing Editor

BIO

Erin Khar lives, loves, and writes in New York City and sometimes other cities too. Her work has been featured many places, including Marie Claire, SELF, Esquire, Cosmopolitan, The Manifest-Station, and Cosmonauts Avenue. In addition to her Ask Erin advice column and her role as Managing Editor for Ravishly, her latest project is a forthcoming memoir that follows her recovery from a 15-year struggle with heroin addiction, as she learned to let go of shame, face the truth, and love and forgive herself. When she’s not writing, she’s probably watching Beverly Hills, 90210.

Erin Khar's Articles

(Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: My Husband Left Yesterday — Is My Marriage Really Over?

My husband left yesterday after months of fighting because in October I found out he had an affair. Is my marriage really over?
Erin Khar   |   02.14.18 12:01am   |   SHARE
Am I the problem in our relationship? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Am I The Problem In Our Relationship?

He kept that a secret for me for so long, how do I know he won't do it again!?? Please help! Am I the problem in our relationship?
Erin Khar   |   02.7.18 12:01am   |   SHARE
I'm just questioning myself over and over. Do you think I’m a rapist? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Am I A Rapist? 

Did I push her into having sex, not physically but verbally? Did I not pick up on her body language? I don’t feel like I raped her, but am I a rapist?
Erin Khar   |   01.30.18 9:52am   |   SHARE
(Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: How Much Space Is Enough For My Boyfriend?

We have been together for two years. My boyfriend won’t text me back. I’m wondering how much space is enough to give my boyfriend until I text him back?
Erin Khar   |   01.24.18 12:01am   |   SHARE
So began the long, toxic love affair between my depression and my addiction.

When Your Addiction And Depression Are In A Codependent Relationship

So began the long, toxic love affair between my depression and my addiction. They battled silently and stealthily for control over my body and mind.
Erin Khar   |   01.23.18 12:01am   |   SHARE
He told me he has a gambling addiction and had been gambling in secret for the past year or two. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Is My Gambling Addict Partner Gambling My Life Away?

About six months ago my partner dropped a major bomb on me. He told me he's a gambling addict and has been gambling in secret for the past year or two.
Erin Khar   |   01.17.18 12:01am   |   SHARE
Am I a home wrecker? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Do You Think I'm A Home Wrecker? 

I’ve been talking to this guy I️ met on a dating app but I found out he has a girlfriend. Do you think I'm a home wrecker?
Erin Khar   |   01.10.18 12:01am   |   SHARE
Should I tell my colleague I'm in love with him? (Illustration by Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Should I Tell My Colleague I'm In Love With Him? 

Just over a year ago, a guy my age came to join my team. We instantly clicked and became great friends. Should I tell my colleague I'm in love with him?
Erin Khar   |   01.3.18 12:01am   |   SHARE
(Image: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I'm In Love With My Best Friend, But He Has A Girlfriend; What Do I Do?  

He is the first person I want to tell things to when something happens, and the person I want to hang out with the most. I'm in love with my best friend!
Erin Khar   |   12.20.17 12:01am   |   SHARE
(Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Does He Love Me Or Does He Just Want Sex?

I think I'm in love with a playboy, and I'm confused if he loves me or just he wants sex. I just wanted someone who would love me as nobody else could.
Erin Khar   |   12.13.17 12:01am   |   SHARE