Erin Khar lives, loves, and writes in New York City and sometimes other cities too. Her work has been featured many places, including Marie Claire, SELF, Esquire, Cosmopolitan, The Manifest-Station, and Cosmonauts Avenue. In addition to her Ask Erin advice column and her role as Managing Editor for Ravishly, her latest project is a forthcoming memoir that follows her recovery from a 15-year struggle with heroin addiction, as she learned to let go of shame, face the truth, and love and forgive herself. When she’s not writing, she’s probably watching Beverly Hills, 90210.
Erin Khar's Articles
I had no expectations beyond what happened, a one-night stand with a co-worker. How do I manage having to stay in contact and keep things professional?
Erin Khar | 06.20.18 12:01am | SHARE
I don't know if I should continue the friendship and accept my friend's apology for sexually assaulting me. I am still getting flashbacks and depression.
Erin Khar | 06.13.18 12:01am | SHARE
Depression lingers like an unwelcome ghost trailing behind me. And most days, I accept that. I acknowledge that. And, I’m okay. What if one day I’m not?
Erin Khar | 06.11.18 6:59am | SHARE
I have been with my husband for years. Porn has never been an issue. One night we watched it and now my husband is mad that I don't want to watch porn.
Erin Khar | 06.6.18 12:01am | SHARE
I don't want to make my friend choose between me and her boyfriend. Yet, I think their relationship is deeply unhealthy and I worry about her.
Erin Khar | 05.30.18 12:01am | SHARE
I just want something in my life to be happy and not dictated by some tyrannical religious presence. I'm afraid my parents will choose religion over me.
Erin Khar | 05.16.18 12:01am | SHARE
I know it’s not fair for me to compare two very different people, so how do I stop comparing my new girlfriend to my Ex? Help!
Erin Khar | 05.2.18 12:01am | SHARE