asexuality

I think I'm asexual but my family thinks I'm gay. (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: I Think I'm Asexual But My Family Thinks I'm Gay 

A month or two ago I read an article on possible asexuality signs, and I fit most of them. I think I'm asexual but my family thinks I'm gay. Read...
Erin Khar   |   07.11.18   |   SHARE
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I Was Born Without A Sex Drive And I’m Okay With It

I first found out about asexuality when I was 19. I was born without a sex drive and I’m not particularly interested in looking for a romantic Read...
Jo Qualmann of SHESAID    |   05.18.18   |   SHARE
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How to love as an asexual...it's possible!

Finding Love As An Asexual Person​

Love and relationships may seem like distant dreams for an asexual person. A lack of interest in sex does not equate to a lack of interest in Read...
Gergana Mileva    |   01.12.18   |   SHARE
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I understand that my husband will never be able to provide me with the sex life I crave, which hurts him as much as me, but we both acknowledge it’s not something he can control.

When My Husband Told Me He Was Asexual

How was my husband was asexual? Had he always been this way? Was it just with me? And did I really want a divorce? Read...
Rocío Gamarra of Role Reboot    |   10.16.17   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: I'm Asexual; How Do I Get Him To Back Off? 

It's no secret that I'm asexual. I've explained what this means several times, and I know this guy is well aware. How do I get him to back off? Read...
Erin Khar   |   10.13.17   |   SHARE
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Most asexual women take a neutral approach and are not particularly concerned with flaunting femininity.

How Asexuality Influences Feminine Expression

Many asexual women say that their asexuality affects how they express femininity, which often goes against the grain of typical feminine expectations. Read...
Neesa Sunar    |   10.2.17   |   SHARE
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It’s important to know that being asexual isn’t the same thing as abstaining from sex.

Being Asexual Doesn't Mean You Don't Like Sex

There’s a lot more to sexuality than meets the eye. Read...
Natalie Slaughter of SHESAID    |   03.1.17   |   SHARE
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Owning my identity changed everything. (Image Credit: Unsplash/Bảo-Quân Nguyễn)

My 'Radical Feminist' Coming Out Story

#YouKnowYoureAFeministWhen… It’s the punchline to a good joke. It’s the start of catchy Twitter hashtag. Right? A few years ago, I was debating with Read...
Melissa Lovitz    |   01.17.17   |   SHARE
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