I’ve habitually, if unconsciously, compared myself to other white women who, in far greater numbers than women of color, are granted competitor status in America’s Olympics of life.
Last week, my mother came home from work, found the shower faucet leaking hot water, and told me to "get my head out of my cunt, and start thinking about other things."
It's sad that we even have to spell this out.
“Love me or hate me, it’s still an obsession,” sang the Nicki Minaj of 2006, L
Ladies, we’re not going to pretend that this is easy but we're also not going to pretend you don't know what were talking about.