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I don’t know if men realize the comments they make on a daily basis can be quite hurtful.

12 Of The Sh*ttiest Things Men Have Said To Me

Recently I’d gotten into an argument with a male friend. It got me thinking about the shittiest things men have said to me… Read...
Peta Serras of SHESAID    |   11.29.18   |   SHARE
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If relationship drama is starting to play out like a bad reality show, it’s time to start acknowledging negative behavior.

6 Unhealthy Behaviors That Create Drama In A Marriage

Of course, attention is key to maintaining a healthy relationship, but if relationship drama is starting to play out like a bad reality show, it’s Read...
Rachel Pace of DivorcedMoms    |   11.27.18   |   SHARE
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6 Ways We Sabotage Our Relationships With “Caretaking” Behavior

When we adopt the “caretaker” role, we minimize our partner’s contributions and exaggerate our own, which creates an unbalanced dynamic that prevents Read...
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I began to wonder if I was defective, if maybe I was only able to be attracted to horrible men.

I’m Scared I’m Only Attracted To Assholes

The worst thought of all — if I meet someone who actually is really nice, how will I stop my anxiety from telling me they will end up being assholes? Read...
Elizabeth Best of SHESAID    |   11.20.18   |   SHARE
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I’m An Attractive, Successful Woman And Men Don’t Want To Date Me

I often wonder if the fact I have a successful career is why I have so much trouble finding Mr Right. Strong women intimidate boys, and excite men. Read...
Peta Serras of SHESAID    |   11.7.18   |   SHARE
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Why We Should Keep Talking About Divorce​

Divorce is so common. This commonality does not make it easier, nor does it mean the emotions behind it easily subside. Let's keep talking about Read...
Liz Logan    |   11.5.18   |   SHARE
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I’m A Rape Survivor; This Is How My Husband & I Handle Intimacy

Assault does not disappear because the new identities of “spouse” or “mother” accumulate in your wake. This is how my husband and I handle intimacy. Read...
Lea Grover    |   11.2.18   |   SHARE
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Feminist Dating Survival Guide

One of the most common questions I've received as a sex and dating coach since Tr*mp's election is “how am I supposed to date straight, cis men Read...
Myisha Battle    |   10.30.18   |   SHARE
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