Sex + Love

No one is immune to an affair and the quickest way to find yourself in trouble is to say, “It could never happen to me.”

Being a couple is about achieving the same goals, whether it’s to cook dinner, assemble IKEA furniture, or build a whole big life together. If you aren’t working towards the same goals (or can’t figure out how to use those miniature screwdrivers), then you aren’t with the right person.

Last week, my mother came home from work, found the shower faucet leaking hot water, and told me to "get my head out of my cunt, and start thinking about other things."

Anyone can be “nice.” Nice involves a surface-level politeness that does not have to be genuine and it does not require empathy or integrity.

I dated a man who was slightly kind, but sort of a bad boy. He didn’t try very hard to get me and wasn’t very affectionate. He did just enough to get me on the hook and I enjoyed the chase.

What do you do if your relationship is struggling? What actions can you take when your partner seems more and more emotionally grating to you? Essentially, how do you save a struggling relationship?

There comes a time in any relationship where things get comfortable. And, contrary to popular belief, there’s nothing wrong with that. At all.

Mirror selfies – Men, if you must selfie (and I’m not recommending that you do) please do not selfie in a mirror. If you really must see what you look like the instant you take the photo, at least use your phone’s flipcam.