Sex + Love

How Love Letters Help Keep Your Love Alive

No relationship is immune to the pitfalls of routine. No matter how much love exists between two people, without gratitude, it fizzles.

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The Lesson That Made My Marriage Stronger

I struggle with written directions. Reading financial statements stresses me out and makes my head spin. Following a written recipe is a challenge. I look like an early reader with my finger resting on each word.

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Sometimes the best thing is NOT having something.

My Divorce Ensured I Would Never Marry Again

I walked away from two long-term relationships (and two picked-out-but-not-purchased engagement rings) because of my resolve that I would only marry once. Then I met my future husband John* in the course of my internship at his publishing company...

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Babies change things. This we know to be true.

Is Your Relationship In Flux? 4 Crisis-Inducing Changes

Having a baby is a joyous time but can often bring about drastic changes to the dynamic. With sleep deprivation, breastfeeding, body hang-ups, and not to mention the baby blues, it’s no surprise that time for each other and sex drive can be nonexistent.

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Why I Can't Be Friends With My Exes

The Law of Attraction states like attracts like – meaning we tend to attract what we put out into the world, we receive what we ask the universe for, and have relationships with people who are like us.

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3 Signs Your Marriage Can't Be Saved

For me and my wife, the marital bliss ended on our honeymoon. Within a few days of walking down the aisle, we both started to doubt our marriage would last.

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Relationships On Autopilot Will Crash Every Time

Anyone who commutes to work has had the experience of arriving at the office and not even remembering the process of getting there.

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Sometimes it has to happen.

Why My Divorce Was The Best Thing I Ever Did

I don't exactly advocate divorce for anyone with a gripe about his or her spouse. Whatever I think of my own divorce, it's not something to take lightly. Divorce is serious. It's the death of a relationship, the end of something that was supposed to last forever. It must be grieved.

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