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I'm Never Going To Be A "Good" Polyamorous Person

“I’m never going to be a 'good' polyamorous person,” I confessed to my soon to be ex-boyfriend. He took my hand, eyes filled with compassion. Read...
Alithea Howes    |   02.14.18   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: Does My Boyfriend Want A Polyamorous Relationship? 

A polyamorous relationship requires the desire and consent of all parties involved. So let's talk about your bodyfriend wanting a polyamorous Read...
Erin Khar    |   10.6.17   |   SHARE
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On Figuring Out My Own Poly Style

The most important facet of any relationship is that everyone be treated with kindness and respect. Hierarchical terms do not accomplish that. Read...
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3 Ways To Avoid Tokenizing People (Because I'm Sick Of It)

It’s like being a deer in the headlights. You’re in imminent danger. You know it. But you can’t move. You can’t speak. No reaction whatsoever. You Read...
Denarii Monroe    |   07.26.16   |   SHARE

Ask Erin: My Partner And I Found Out The Guy We’re Hooking Up With Is Engaged

We both want to make it an ongoing thing with this particular guy and he was also open. The problem is, when we were at the bar he showed us a Read...
Erin Khar    |   06.10.16   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: Help! My Partner Isn't Over His Abusive Ex.

My partner and I got together last December. The problem is that, while he loves me, my boyfriend hasn’t got over his ex. Being polyamorous, my Read...
Erin Khar    |   04.29.16   |   SHARE
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Polyamory: A Q&A With Sam Dylan Finch Of "Let's Queer Things Up"

Polyamory gives me beautiful and intimate moments with people I otherwise wouldn’t be “allowed” to connect with. Polyamory gives me more love, more Read...
joni edelman, RN   |   11.9.15   |   SHARE
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I Have A Husband, 3 Kids, And 2 Boyfriends — And I'm Open To More

All across America, in sleepy suburbs just like yours, moms are hiding secrets. Read...
Momlogic of Your Tango    |   07.17.15   |   SHARE
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