Chelsea Cristene

That’s the thing about perfectionism. When you chase something unattainable, you complete a self-fulfilling prophecy.

The first rule: Unrequited love sucks. The second rule took regrettably longer for me to get a handle on: My unilateral crush was not this guy’s problem.

When men’s dating preferences were observed, the age of women they expressed interest in never (never!) deviated from the early 20s.

Chipping away at the problem of bisexual erasure starts with living truth out loud.

Knowing a few compulsive liars over the course of my life has taught me some things. Living during Trump’s presidency has reinforced them.