Sex + Love

Sticky: A (Self) Love Story

Sticky: A (Self) Love Story (It's About Masturbation)

"...once I got past the jokes, I was shocked to realize that most people have a touchy relationship with self-pleasure.

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How do I love thee...

Hitachi Magic Wand: A Sonnet (Or Two)

Hitachi! I stash thee in my drawer

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The author. Image: Mamamia.

She’s 22. She’s Not Married. She’s The Odd One Out.

We all know the story about the annoying, old aunt, right? The one where she kept cackling ‘you’re next!’ at every wedding until you did the same at the next funeral?

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love.

Dating While Black: I'm No Jezebel

Black women were branded as sexually promiscuous and immoral, which in turn was used as justification for sexual trauma/rape.

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Are you serious?

Schools Are Not Sexism-Free

I’ve got two tales of hideous male behavior — at the elementary school, somewhere typically full of good vibes and happiness and all that.

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I wish we had started going sooner instead of waiting for everything to implode.

So You Want To Go To Couple's Therapy? Here Are 5 Tips.

A few years ago, my boyfriend of two years and I went to couple's therapy. To say our relationship was falling apart would have been an understatement.

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Just scream. Let it out. It feels really fucking good!

10 Things I Did To Recover From My Divorce

Want to go on a carbs and wine tour of Italy? Break out the leggings and go for it. This time is yours.

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The BIG Bang McGillicuddy.

Why I Strip

“Why would you do that? You have a daughter. Why would you put yourself in that position?”

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