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Stick It To The Homophobes: Why My Lesbian Wedding Will Be Unapologetically Over-The-Top

I suddenly understood why I felt this intense pressure to make my lesbian wedding so wildly spectacular — to stick to the homophobes. Read...
Zara Barrie    |   10.5.18   |   SHARE
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My wife has a gambling addiction — and that night, it came to a head.

Can My Marriage Survive My Partner’s Gambling Addiction?

My wife told me that she lost the entire mortgage gambling. She has a gambling addiction — and that night, it came to a head. Read...
Jacy Topps    |   10.1.18   |   SHARE
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I’ll just be sitting here waiting for my weirdo.

What Is It About My Dating Profile That Says Treat Me Like Crap?

I hear internet dating success stories all the time. My story never seems to quite go that way. I’ll just be sitting here waiting for my weirdo. Read...
Elizabeth Best of SHESAID    |   09.28.18   |   SHARE
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When I told my friends, family, and therapist we were back together, they were worried.

Put It In Writing: Using A Contract To Heal My Relationship

When I told my friends, family, and therapist we were back together, they were worried. That’s when we had the idea to write up a contract. Read...
Liz Presson    |   09.27.18   |   SHARE
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I still want to be in a relationship eventually, and have a family and all that, but right now I am happy being single, and that scares me.

I’m Happy Being Single And It Scares The Sh*t Out Of Me

I still want to be in a relationship eventually, and have a family and all that, but right now I am happy being single, and that scares me. Read...
Elizabeth Best of SHESAID    |   09.24.18   |   SHARE
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Even though we are no longer living together as a married couple, it’s not the end of our relationship — it just means carrying on in a new way.

My Ex-Husband And I Still Hang Out ​

Even though we are no longer living together as a married couple, it’s not the end of our relationship — it just means carrying on in a new way. Read...
Sarah Bregel    |   09.17.18   |   SHARE
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How on earth could I have been married to a man for 15 years and not recognize that he had Asperger Syndrome?

I Thought My Husband Was Intense – Then I Found Out He Has Asperger’s

How on earth could I have been married to a man for 15 years and not recognize that he had Asperger Syndrome? Looking back, there were clues. Read...
L. Victoria Serdikoff of SHESAID    |   09.12.18   |   SHARE
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Now, several years later, I think I was selfish and a coward. I could have handled things differently when it came to ghosting my ex.

On Ghosting My Ex: I’m The One Who Ended Up Being Haunted

Now, several years later, I think I was selfish and a coward. I could have handled things differently when it came to ghosting my ex. Read...
Aradhana Pandey of Role Reboot    |   09.10.18   |   SHARE
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