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I Finally Took Self-Help Advice And It Actually Worked!
I was actually keeping the promise I’d made to myself and sticking to all the self-help advice I’d read. THAT WAS A FIRST! Read...
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Stop Telling Me To "Dress Gay"
When did my sexuality come with a dress code, I don't have to dress gay!? Sexuality is not validated by what clothes you wear. I know exactly who I Read...
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I Gave Up On My Marriage So I Could Save Myself
Nothing about my decision to move on focus my time and energy on myself and my children instead of my failing marriage was taken casually or quickly. Read...
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Stick It To The Homophobes: Why My Lesbian Wedding Will Be Unapologetically Over-The-Top
I suddenly understood why I felt this intense pressure to make my lesbian wedding so wildly spectacular — to stick to the homophobes. Read...
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Can My Marriage Survive My Partner’s Gambling Addiction?
My wife told me that she lost the entire mortgage gambling. She has a gambling addiction — and that night, it came to a head. Read...
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What Is It About My Dating Profile That Says Treat Me Like Crap?
I hear internet dating success stories all the time. My story never seems to quite go that way. I’ll just be sitting here waiting for my weirdo. Read...
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Put It In Writing: Using A Contract To Heal My Relationship
When I told my friends, family, and therapist we were back together, they were worried. That’s when we had the idea to write up a contract. Read...
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I’m Happy Being Single And It Scares The Sh*t Out Of Me
I still want to be in a relationship eventually, and have a family and all that, but right now I am happy being single, and that scares me. Read...
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