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I’m Scared I’m Only Attracted To Assholes
The worst thought of all — if I meet someone who actually is really nice, how will I stop my anxiety from telling me they will end up being assholes? Read...
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I’m An Attractive, Successful Woman And Men Don’t Want To Date Me
I often wonder if the fact I have a successful career is why I have so much trouble finding Mr Right. Strong women intimidate boys, and excite men. Read...
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Why We Should Keep Talking About Divorce
Divorce is so common. This commonality does not make it easier, nor does it mean the emotions behind it easily subside. Let's keep talking about Read...
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I’m A Rape Survivor; This Is How My Husband & I Handle Intimacy
Assault does not disappear because the new identities of “spouse” or “mother” accumulate in your wake. This is how my husband and I handle intimacy. Read...
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Feminist Dating Survival Guide
One of the most common questions I've received as a sex and dating coach since Tr*mp's election is “how am I supposed to date straight, cis men Read...
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6 Ways To Deal With Your Partner’s Horrible Ex
If your partner is still connected to his horrible ex in a way neither of you can do anything about, here are six ways to cope. Read...
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I’m Genderfluid And Here’s What I’d Like You To Know
Engaging with a genderfluid person on a deeper level than appearance will mean so much more to them and help them feel accepted and seen. Read...
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You Wanted The Divorce But You Still Miss Your Ex
It is natural for memory to gloss over the painful events and emphasize the good ones. You may be viewing your ex through rose-colored glasses. Read...
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