ghosting

Now, several years later, I think I was selfish and a coward. I could have handled things differently when it came to ghosting my ex.

On Ghosting My Ex: I’m The One Who Ended Up Being Haunted

Now, several years later, I think I was selfish and a coward. I could have handled things differently when it came to ghosting my ex. Read...
Aradhana Pandey of Role Reboot    |   09.10.18   |   SHARE
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After a one-night stand with my co-worker, how do I stay professional?

Ask Erin: How Do I Stay Professional After A One-Night Stand With A Co-Worker?

I had no expectations beyond what happened, a one-night stand with a co-worker. How do I manage having to stay in contact and keep things Read...
Erin Khar   |   06.20.18   |   SHARE
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I Confronted The Guy Who Ghosted Me. Here's What Happened

A year ago I’d never even heard of being ghosted, let alone had it happen to me.But earlier this year, for the first time in my life, I was ghosted. Read...
Elizabeth Best of SHESAID    |   05.23.18   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: How Much Space Is Enough For My Boyfriend?

We have been together for two years. My boyfriend won’t text me back. I’m wondering how much space is enough to give my boyfriend until I text him Read...
Erin Khar   |   01.24.18   |   SHARE
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This reappearing act has been coined “Submarining."

Submarining? No Thanks, I’d Rather Be Ghosted!

Submarining can occur weeks, months or even years after the initial ghosting has taken place. Read...
Jolie Warren of DivorcedMoms    |   12.11.17   |   SHARE
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In Support Of Ghosting

Is ghosting different in the world of online dating? I believe so. Read...
Peta Serras of SHESAID    |   07.31.17   |   SHARE
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What’s Not Said: A Love Letter From Your Friend, The Flake

Please know that us flakes usually are dealing with something more than being lazy or disinterested. Flakes are usually ashamed and angry at Read...
Lisa Marie Basile    |   07.12.17   |   SHARE
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I grew numb to the fact that so many straight people in my life had such stoic ideas about what lesbians do and don’t do.

Stop Telling Me ‘Lesbians Don’t Scissor’ (And Other Things Straight People Insist We Never Do)

I don’t find many things strange (I have a high threshold for strange), but I do find it weird that I’ve come across so many straight people who are Read...
Zara Barrie    |   06.16.17   |   SHARE
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