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I'm Into Vanilla Sex — Why Does That Make Me Weird?

Honestly, I’d say about 90% of the sex I have in my long-term monogamous relationship is “vanilla.” We are, believe it or not, a normal couple who Read...
Gigi Engle    |   09.12.17   |   SHARE
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If you're shopping for some new bling, why not go with a piece of jewelry that's designed to double as a sex toy? (Image Credit: Instagram/unboundbox)

Sex Toys You Can Wear As Jewelry

Whether you're into dangly earrings, chokers, pieces that are a bit more understated or have a funky flair, there's something on the market that's Read...
Danielle Page    |   06.8.17   |   SHARE
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7 Habits That Make Someone Good In Bed

You don’t even have to be a good person to be incredible at sex, apparently (my ex proves this). Read...
Gigi Engle    |   05.9.17   |   SHARE
Who we are in life is often not at all who we are in the bedroom. I am a total dom in the streets and a sub between the sheets.

Why I'm A Dom In The Streets But A Sub In The Sheets

I feel absolutely zero shame or embarrassment saying I am one hell of a badass bitch. I’m sure of myself and I know who I am. What many who know me Read...
Gigi Engle    |   11.22.16   |   SHARE
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BDSM: Top Or Bottom? A Feminist Can Be Either

Trying to be dominant feels like acting for me. This isn’t to say there is no acting during scenes when I’m bottoming, but there’s a reason why I Read...
Nicole Guappone    |   09.14.16   |   SHARE
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Just because a woman enjoys being spanked or having her hair pulled mid-coitus doesn't mean she is giving up equality — it's simply a game she wants to play. Image: WeHeartIt.

I'm A Feminist Who Loves BDSM And I Give Zero F*cks What You Think

As with any book that explores a realm diverging from the mundane, there has been a lot of talk about not only the writing (apparently it sucks), but Read...
Amanda Chatel of Your Tango    |   02.17.16   |   SHARE
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BDSM and the use of safewords.

How Safewords Helped Me Reclaim My Sexual Power

The first time I remember learning what a safeword was, I was sitting in my college dorm, devouring blogs about kink and BDSM. It all seemed so Read...
Britni de la Cretaz    |   01.19.16   |   SHARE
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Acceptance Of My Post-Baby Body: My Corsets Don't Fit Anymore

I did a boudoir photography shoot shortly before becoming pregnant. I lost 25 pounds to help control my blood pressure before pregnancy put its Read...
Alexa    |   06.11.15   |   SHARE
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