Love

Experience body size diversity in a lesbian relationship is our journey. Our bodies connect us, remind us of our humanness, and for this, I am grateful.

Love is in our reach, but still always somewhat out of our hands. Here are three factors that will determine who you marry.

Pretending you don’t have feelings doesn’t pay off.

I was convinced that by taking a leap so out of character — so spontaneous and unexpected — I had changed the very trajectory of my love life.

My phone is now silent by design, but I’m still nostalgic for the days when single people met off-line. I long for genuine closeness and sustained concentration, including my own. I’ve become a person who is perturbed if I text and receive a phone call in reply. I’ve gotten lax in making in-person time for people when I have the ability to consume snippets of their lives online between Netflix originals.

Why is it when women speak our minds assertively it’s deemed needy?

This labor, the work of being a female, has been our work so long that no one really knows what a truly equally yoked household looks like.

Forget a hot bod! I just want someone who knows himself.