Elizabeth Laura Nelson

Yes, a lot of parents are assholes. But you know what? A lot of people are assholes; some of them happen to have kids, some don’t. I can’t speak for all parents, and I wouldn’t want to try. But speaking as one particular person with kids, here’s what I wish my childfree friends would understand…

The only thing worse than being in a bad mood, is dealing with someone else’s bad mood.

Pretending you don’t have feelings doesn’t pay off.

Finding gratitude in the wake of a bad breakup isn’t easy. Here are a few things to focus on.

Is it hard for you to accept help when you need it?

“Parenting” has become a competitive sport. But it’s kids who are losing. Let your kids screw up.

No energy at 3PM? The mid-afternoon slump is a well-known phenomenon.

This isn’t Sleeping Beauty. There’s no prince coming to rescue you. What relationship beliefs are standing in your way?

A low libido doesn’t have to be a clinically diagnosable condition in order for it to be a problem.

A relationship with a narcissist may start out with butterflies and fireworks...But don’t be fooled: it’s not about you. It’s about them.