Nicole Guappone

Trying to be dominant feels like acting for me. This isn’t to say there is no acting during scenes when I’m bottoming, but there’s a reason why I preferred working backstage when I did theatre in college—I don’t like pretending to be something I’m really not. It isn’t comfortable. It doesn’t feel natural.

An estimated 30% of people with vulvas experience chronic pelvic pain at some point. Sexual pleasure when you have pelvic pain can be challenging.