femininity

What A Drag Queen Thinks About Female Beauty Standards

Drag isn't one-size-fits-all femininity. (image credit: Thinkstock)

Being a Drag Queen isn't one-size-fits-all femininity. Not all real life women are glamorous and fabulous at all times, nor should we feel we have to be.

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Take The Cake: Fatness, Femininity, And My Pink Bangs

Fatness, femininity and hair! Photo credit: @virgietovar on Instagram

One of the things I have done for myself in adulthood as part of my healing process is make a strong claim to fatness femininity.

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How Asexuality Influences Feminine Expression

Most asexual women take a neutral approach and are not particularly concerned with flaunting femininity.

Many asexual women say that their asexuality affects how they express femininity, which often goes against the grain of typical feminine expectations.

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Why Cutting Your Hair Short Equals Better Sex

I faced that fear with a hair cut. It showed me my unique beauty, unbound by societal expectations.

If a man isn’t attracted to me because of my hair, it tells me two things: Number one, he has a one-dimensional perception of femininity. Number two, he’s an asshat.

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We Have To Change The Kind Of Masculinity We Teach Our Sons

Is it possible to shift the dialogue when it comes to teaching masculinity to boys? Image: Thinkstock.

I guess we are all guilty of gender-typing to some degree. It’s ingrained deep in our subconscious and culture. Everywhere we go: shopping malls, in the media, play groups, schools, public bathrooms — and the list goes on. But is it possible to shift the dialogue when it comes to teaching masculinity to boys?

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'Princesses Have Hair': How A Teenager's Viral Hashtag Is Shaking Up Beauty Standards

It all started with a 16-year-old French blogger named Adele Labo, who “suffered enormously” after being mocked by her classmates for refusing to shave. Image: Adele Labo.

For centuries — since the days of ancient Egypt, in fact — women have been going to immense lengths to remove their body hair. Plucking, shaving, buffing, stripping and even burning away that supposedly “unsightly,” “masculine” thicket of fuzz. But now, women are being encouraged to embrace their body hair in a thoroughly 21st century way: a viral hashtag.

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My Traditional Lifestyle Doesn't Make Me Less Of A Feminist

I’m here to fight the patriarchy too.

When I was a teenager, I felt very certain that I was not a feminist. I didn’t exactly understand the textbook definition of feminism, but I had a pretty good sense from the negative connotation I had gleaned while growing up in a narrowly Christian setting.

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Masculinity Is Killing Us

In gay people, masculinity perceives its soft and vulnerable (i.e., human) underside. Image: The All-Nite Images/Flickr.

To worship all that is masculine often means to frame oneself in opposition to those in the LGBT community. The attitudes and values of that community do make room for the masculine, but predominantly veer toward the gentle, the soft, the empathetic, the sunny, the good-humored, the multicolored, and the spirited.

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Just Because It Sparkles Doesn't Mean It's Anti-Feminist

The clothing does not define the activity at this age; it’s not a uniform. Image: Thinkstock.

Many people (rightfully) believe that women own their bodies, and that, therefore, they should be in control of their own bodies. So why do those same people turn around and try to define girls by their clothing?

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I Entered My Son In A Beauty Pageant. Turns Out They're Just As Bad For Boys As They Are For Girls.

Ryan!

I’d like to think my son won his first (and only) beauty pageant because of his sparkling personality, curly mop of hair, bright blue eyes, and adorable tuxedo — but the truth is that he won because he was the only boy in the entire pageant. He won every category I entered him in, regardless of his looks, personality, or actions. He literally won just for showing up. It was the embodiment of both white and male privilege.

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