Elizabeth Laura Nelson

Yes, a lot of parents are assholes. But you know what? A lot of people are assholes; some of them happen to have kids, some don’t. I can’t speak for all parents, and I wouldn’t want to try. But speaking as one particular person with kids, here’s what I wish my childfree friends would understand…

A relationship with a narcissist may start out with butterflies and fireworks...But don’t be fooled: it’s not about you. It’s about them.

Is it hard for you to accept help when you need it?

How far should love go?

Pretending you don’t have feelings doesn’t pay off.

Can’t calm down, won’t calm down.

Real self-care: Forget pedicures and bubble baths.

The "comfort relationship": Sometimes we get comfortable being uncomfortable.

The only thing worse than being in a bad mood, is dealing with someone else’s bad mood.

If your partner is still connected to his horrible ex in a way neither of you can do anything about, here are six ways to cope.