Joni Edelman

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Now that I've embarked upon the decade I once considered "old," there are a few things I'd like my 20 (and 30) year-old self to know.

It's not always easy to find a new partner when you have kids in tow. But not only is it possible, it's worth it.

91% of women report dissatisfaction with their body. Ninety-one. I know you know math—that’s 9/10 of women.

When it comes to your physique, your mind can actually work against you.

So you fed your baby some formula instead of breast milk. His future is not shot. Really. It's not—and The Guilt serves no one.

You should know that she is a really awesome human.

All boobs are good boobs. And all areola too!

...I’m going to help you! By “help” I mean “tell you all the things that didn’t work.”

As long as I can remember having paid attention to the media, I can remember a woman's weight—or body in general—being a news story.