Relationships

I'm Not Doing Emotional Labor For Past Lovers Anymore

The amount of emotional labor I had put into these pseudo-friendships was immediately swept away with one single mention of my own personal discomfort Read...
Laura Delarato    |   10.18.17   |   SHARE
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I love her body because it’s hers.

Navigating Body Size Diversity In A Lesbian Relationship

Experience body size diversity in a lesbian relationship is our journey. Our bodies connect us, remind us of our humanness, and for this, I am Read...
Heather Newell    |   10.12.17   |   SHARE
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It was always about Spock for me. He wasn’t supposed to be hot, but to me, he was (and is) BANGIN.

Spock Set Me Up to Love Emotionally Unavailable Men

I spent much of my childhood fawning over episodes of Star Trek. It was always about Spock for me. Therefore, Star Trek shaped my love life. Read...
Gigi Engle    |   10.10.17   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: Does My Boyfriend Want A Polyamorous Relationship? 

A polyamorous relationship requires the desire and consent of all parties involved. So let's talk about your bodyfriend wanting a polyamorous Read...
Erin Khar    |   10.6.17   |   SHARE
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Intimacy is created when the two of you are engaged and participating in an activity you both enjoy.

2 Common Relationship Myths And Why They Are Destructive

There are relationship myths that, if adhered to, can actually hurt your chances at finding love or damage a new, budding romance. Read...
J. Hope Suis of DivorcedMoms    |   10.4.17   |   SHARE
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These 3 Factors Will Determine Who You Marry

Love is in our reach, but still always somewhat out of our hands. Here are three factors that will determine who you marry. Read...
Jessica Wendroff    |   10.4.17   |   SHARE
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I'm Into Vanilla Sex — Why Does That Make Me Weird?

Honestly, I’d say about 90% of the sex I have in my long-term monogamous relationship is “vanilla.” We are, believe it or not, a normal couple who Read...
Gigi Engle    |   09.12.17   |   SHARE
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I bet that nearly everyone has, at one time or another, thought about someone else while having sex.

Ask Erin: Is It Wrong To Think Of Someone Else During Sex?

She’s made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to… Ask Erin is a weekly advice column, in which Erin answers your burning questions about anything at Read...
Erin Khar   |   09.8.17   |   SHARE
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