Matt Joseph Diaz

Being a "nice guy" has become an excuse for unacceptable behavior in romantic relationships. Matt says enough is enough. It's time for honesty to take the place of kindness with ulterior motives.

It's Monday — Boo! But, it's also time for another installment of #MondaysWithMatt — Yeah! 

This Monday, Matt talks about female comic characters. Batman? How about BatNOTSOMUCHMAN.

Matt talks about how to deal with being stared at. 

Once I became a body positive writer and speaker, I told the story of that night on podcasts and in interviews as an example of the sort of reaction I was afraid of prior to my video about my excess skin going viral. Every time, the interviewer made a comment about how Dana was “the ugly one,” not me. And every time, I told them I didn’t want her to be vilified or insulted.

Do you remember that incredibly awkward feeling you’d get during childhood when you went over to a friend’s house for dinner and their parents started arguing? This was like that — only your dick is out and you got caught having sex with one of the parents.

For a long time, passing privilege made me feel like I didn’t deserve to call myself latino.

We met Matt a year ago when he showed us his post weight-loss body.

CN: suicide

Dear 16-Year-Old, 500 Pound Matt,